Oh, yes, I know. A man.
Probably you’ve heard many times of men who tell their wives/partners that they look better without makeup and they don’t need all that ‘muck’ on their face to look beautiful for them.
The sad part about it is that there are thousands of women who actually believe this rubbish.
But why is it that these men think this way, or do they really?
All or most normal men, married or otherwise, look and even ogle a beautiful woman as she walks down the street or appears in a glossy or on TV.
The first time most, if not all, men meet and are attracted to their eventual wives, partners or girl friends it is more than likely that the ladies were wearing makeup.
The majority of men who leave and abandon their partners later on in life, do so for a younger model who is still aware of her sexuality and actually goes out into the world WEARING MAKEUP.
You have to ask yourself, why women put up with being tied down to a control freak who is trying to persuade them that their ‘natural look’ satisfies them. It can only lead to frustration and resentment
OK, so now lets get down to the nitty gritty
- Has your man told you look better without all that goo on your face?
- If so, do you believe him?
- Has your sex life deteriorated over the years?
- Does your man ever look at other women with a glint in his eye?
- Do you have any self esteem?
- Do you want to be more self aware and enjoy your sexuality?
Answer any of the above questions with a yes and you need to seriously re-think your lifestyle.
First of all. We are not advocating group divorce. All we are saying is that you should:-
- Take charge of your own life
- Start living, it’s never too late
- Take stock of your body and face
- Buy the latest beauty and fashion magazines.
Go to your nearest store and browse the cosmetic department. Don’t be intimidated by those well made up sales girls. They really do need you more than you need them. And some of them can be very very helpful.
Take the plunge and buy some eye makeup. Even get the sales girl to give you a make over. It’s usually cost free and you don’t have to buy if you don’t want to, but you will come away with lots of useful tips and advice.
My idea for a soft eye makeup look would be beige, taupe or brown eye shadow swept over the entire lid, followed by a slightly darker shade in the crease and perhaps a smudge carefully put around the outer edge of the eyes as close to the lashes as possible.
This topped off by a lick of brown moisturizing mascara.
Mustn’t forget the all important eyebrows. They can really make a huge difference to the whole face.
If you don’t go mad and start lathering your face with heavy foundations and hard eye makeup, the man in your life should hardly notice the difference but he will think to himself that you look rather nice.
Who knows it could spark off your relationship once more and bring back the old zazz.